As we enter the month of Tammuz, we find ourselves in a time marked by both sorrow and the possibility of renewal. Jewish tradition teaches us that these weeks of reflection—beginning with the 17th of Tammuz and leading to Tisha B’Av—invite us to face the world’s brokenness while actively seeking healing. Even in pain, we can find purpose and connection.
This year, these ancient teachings feel especially relevant. With ongoing instability in the Middle East and growing threats to Israel, many of us are grappling with fear, sadness, and the weight of our shared history. We stand with Israel in its efforts to protect its people and pray for a safer, more secure future for the entire region. Our hearts remain with the hostages still held in Gaza, and we stand in unwavering solidarity with their families, who continue to endure unimaginable pain.
During these difficult times, Tammuz reminds us that healing often begins with connection and compassion—exactly what we strive to provide at JFCS. Whether families are facing personal loss, community trauma, or the stress of world events, we’re here to walk alongside them in their healing journey.
This spring, we concluded our Parental Bereavement Support Group, made possible by the Past Presidents’ Impact Fund in honor of Jacob Manders, z”l. Created for parents who have experienced the devastating loss of a child, this group has provided life-changing support.
One participant shared: “This group has helped beyond words. We have clicked—and do not want it to end. My husband has opened up, which he did not before. To share what others cannot understand helps to know we are not alone in this ‘club’ we never wanted to join.”
Another parent reflected: “I don’t have enough praise for this group and this organization. LIFE SAVING.”
At the participants’ request, the group will continue meeting beyond its originally scheduled eight weeks and remain active throughout the summer. We’re honored to provide this kind of vital support when families need it most.
We also recognize that healing takes many forms. Our Together We Heal Family Recovery Support Group, sponsored by Gregg B. Wolfe in memory of Justin Matthew Wolfe, z”l, will create a safe space for family members of those in recovery. Led by a licensed JFCS clinician, this group will offer families a culturally sensitive environment to share experiences, learn coping strategies, and connect with others who understand their unique challenges. Together We Heal is slated to begin later this summer and will meet every other week.
Tammuz calls us toward transformation — personal, spiritual, and communal. It reminds us that change takes time, and that healing happens through community. As we move through these challenging days together, may we continue to draw strength from one another and from our shared commitment to supporting those in need.
Know that JFCS is here for you — to offer support, to listen, and to walk beside you during difficult times. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if we can help in any way. Am Yisrael Chai!
With hope and solidarity,
Melanie Stoopler & Jill Hammel, Associate Executive Directors
